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when you get rich, tell NO ONE

when you get rich, tell NO ONE

Mark Tilbury

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Video Summary

The transcript offers guidance for individuals who suddenly acquire significant wealth, emphasizing that accumulating wealth is different from managing it. It advises discretion, recommending that one remain "stealth rich" and confide only in an attorney to avoid negative social and personal consequences. The advice extends to quitting unsatisfying jobs, but not working altogether, to maintain a normal routine and avoid impulsive spending. The importance of eliminating high-interest debt, particularly credit cards, is highlighted as a guaranteed return, with a caution against rushing to pay off low-interest mortgages. The transcript also addresses interpersonal dynamics, advocating for not lending money to friends and family to preserve relationships and financial well-being, suggesting that being "cruel to be kind" is ultimately more beneficial. A significant portion details how to invest newly acquired wealth, focusing on a "freedom figure" derived by multiplying annual living expenses by 25, and proposing a diversified portfolio including stocks, bonds, real estate, and cryptocurrency, with a portion reserved for discretionary spending.

An interesting fact from the transcript is that Jack Whitaker, who won $314.9 million, experienced divorce, abandonment by friends, and the tragic overdose of his granddaughter, ultimately admitting his over-generosity ruined his fortune and famil

Short Highlights

  • Maintain privacy and act "stealth rich" after sudden wealth acquisition.
  • Quit unsatisfying jobs but avoid ceasing work altogether.
  • Prioritize paying off high-interest debts like credit cards (20-30% interest).
  • Do not lend money to friends and family to avoid relationship strain.
  • Invest to build wealth, aiming for a "freedom figure" (annual expenses x 25).
  • A sample portfolio suggests investing $1 million in stocks, $1 million in bonds, $1 million in real estate, $500,000 in crypto, and $1 million in a high-interest savings account.
  • Allocate a portion of wealth as "fun money" for discretionary spending

Key Details

The Perils of Sudden Wealth [00:00]

  • Upon sudden wealth acquisition (lottery win, inheritance, investment surge), individuals are more prone to losing friends and family, substance abuse, and divorce due to a lack of wealth management experience.
  • The core advice is to remain "stealth rich," prioritizing privacy.
  • Jack Whitaker's $314.9 million lottery win serves as a cautionary tale: his openness led to his wife divorcing him, friends abandoning him, and his granddaughter's tragic death from an overdose, with Whitaker admitting his excessive generosity destroyed his fortune and family.

"Most people who get rich fast have never actually built wealth before and have absolutely no idea how to manage everything."

Navigating Secrecy and Scams [02:09]

  • Even with attempts at secrecy, people may still suspect wealth, increasing the risk of robbery, lawsuits, blackmail, or scams.
  • Money doesn't change people; it reveals their true nature.
  • The only person to inform is a specialized attorney for trust and estate planning, which can save on taxes and ensure privacy.

Quitting Your Job and Maintaining Normality [02:53]

  • If a job is unsatisfying, quit it, but do not stop working altogether.
  • Maintain a normal routine for at least six months to process the new wealth and resist impulsive spending.
  • Boredom and sudden wealth can lead to starting businesses without knowledge, potentially resulting in failure.

"The way I've always thought of it is if you're working, then you're not spending."

Debt Management Strategy [03:54]

  • High-interest debts, particularly credit cards (20-30% interest), should be the immediate priority for repayment as they erode wealth quickly.
  • While paying off mortgages is common, it might be more beneficial to keep low-interest debt (2-3%) and invest, aiming for returns higher than the debt's cost.
  • Paying off high-interest debt offers a guaranteed risk-free return, equivalent to earning that interest rate.

Protecting Relationships and Boundaries [05:07]

  • Friends and family may feel entitled to a share of sudden wealth, leading to requests for loans or investments.
  • Lending money to loved ones is a fast track to losing them.
  • A rule for helping those genuinely in need is to give money without expecting repayment, but only once, to prevent them from becoming dependent.

"Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind."

Investing for Long-Term Freedom: The Freedom Figure [06:26]

  • A consumer mindset leads to spending the principal, not just the interest, as seen in a lottery-winning family who lost their $10 million home and sports cars within two years due to bad investments and debt.
  • The "golden rule" is to never spend the principal, only the interest.
  • The "freedom figure" is calculated by multiplying annual desired income by 25 (based on a 4% safe withdrawal rate) to determine the investment capital needed to live off passive income. For $200,000 annual income, $5 million is needed.

Diversifying Investments for Passive Income [08:02]

  • To achieve the "freedom figure," investing is necessary, as ordinary savings accounts yield low interest rates (e.g., 0.5%).
  • A sample diversified portfolio for $5 million:
    • $1 million in a low-cost total stock market index fund (avg. 9% annual return, ~$90,000/year).
    • $1 million in a low-cost total bond market index fund (avg. 4% annual return, ~$40,000/year).
    • $500,000 in residential real estate (avg. 7% annual appreciation, ~$35,000/year).
    • $500,000 in commercial real estate (avg. 8% annual return, ~$40,000/year).
    • $500,000 in blue-chip crypto like Bitcoin/Ethereum (estimated 10-15% range, ~$62,500/year).
    • $1 million in a high-interest savings account (e.g., 4.5% on $1 million, ~$45,000/year).
  • This portfolio could generate approximately $312,500 per year in passive income, assuming historical market averages.
  • A sponsorship from Trading 212 offers a free fractional share using code "Tilbury."

"If you want to get started building an investing portfolio, I actually reached out to Trading 212 to see if they wanted to sponsor this portion of the video."

The True Meaning of Wealth and Legacy [11:52]

  • The remaining $500,000 from the example portfolio can be spent as "fun money."
  • True wealth is not about possessions like Lamborghinis or mansions, but about the freedom to choose how to spend your day and never having to do things you don't want to do.
  • Rich individuals who stay rich buy back their time and focus on freedom, not just accumulation.
  • The ultimate goal is to secure oneself and then think beyond, leaving a legacy. The video on investing for beginners is recommended for further learning.

Final Investment Portfolio Allocation [11:52]

  • The example portfolio allocates $5 million across various assets to generate passive income.
  • The transcript implies that the remaining $500,000 from the initial $5.5 million ($5 million invested + $500k fun money) is for discretionary spending or "fun money."
  • The total duration of the video concludes at approximately 12:39

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